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Muddle through the puddles…
It’s been a minute since I last posted, but I am back now. This past year has been one of the worst years of my life. I suffered multiple traumas in the year since my last post and I had so much my mind was trying to process through that trying to form complete thoughts…
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One man’s cult is another man’s torture chamber…
Cult – A relatively small group that excessively controls its members, whom share set of acts and practices which require unwavering devotion, and are considered deviant (outside the norms of society), and typically led by a charismatic and often self-appointed leader.Characteristics of Cults:Authoritarian Leadership: Authoritarianism involves the acceptance of an authority figure who exercises excessive control on cult members. As prophet or founder, this leader’s word is considered ultimate…
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Rearranging furniture, rearranging my life…
Rearrange – move into a more acceptable position or state. I don’t know about you, but I like to rearrange the furniture in my apartment every few months as it keeps things interesting and gives a fresh feel to the place where I spend all my days. This task is typically done all by myself…
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The best way out is through the horror…
Trauma. A deeply distressing or disturbing experience. We have all experienced trauma of some form or fashion in our lives, whether it be physical, mental, emotional or even spiritual. Trauma can be debilitating, it can change the course of our lives in an instant, it can change our outlook on what we’re doing and how…
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Effort is attractive, how hot are you?
Effort. Conscious exertion of power; hard work; a serious attempt. While chatting with a friend today we got on the topic of effort. As we all know, effort means something different to each person, especially when it comes to relationships. I’ve witness and experienced so many different levels of effort in so many different scenarios. For some…
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Little things make me happy, but I ain’t no bare minimum bitch…
Bare minimum. The smallest possible quantity or the least fulfilling, but still adequate, condition that is required, acceptable, or suitable for some purpose. For so many years of my adult life I was denied the bare minimum from my partner. I would beg for him to hold my hand, tell me something good I did…
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I find your lack of respect disturbing…
Respect. A word with so many facets, so many levels, so powerful an anthem was written about it and yet it is so incredibly simple. Simply put, respect, also called esteem, is a positive feeling or action shown towards someone or something considered important or held in high esteem or regard. It conveys a sense of…
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You don’t get over it, you get through it
Grief. It’s one of the hardest and strongest emotions to feel because you’re grieving something you’ll will never have again. Grief doesn’t just happen when someone dies, it could be grieving over a life you planned but it didn’t happen or ending a relationship with a friend or a relative or significant other. Everyone experiences grief…
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Walls are meant for breaking
Walls. We all have them at some point in our lives. Some walls are for protection, others are for stability and then there are the walls that can become detrimental to our ability to maintain the relationships in our lives. I have built up walls and torn them down as each phase of my life…
One Step Ahead of Fear 